Feeling Stuck?

Feeling Stuck? Here Is How Get Unstuck & Get Your Life Back

So often we feel stuck. Well what is keeping us feeling stuck?

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Sometimes we need a mental housecleaning to find out where that smell is coming from. It could be the tiniest thing, maybe your not even aware of it all the time.

The truth is God is one of restoration, wholeness, and compleFeelingStucktion. So despite adversities, setbacks, depression, and how you may feel stuck today you need to know that “Delay is Not Defeat” and…


You are not alone…


Remember times like this are only temporary.

We know that all things work together for good to those who love God . . .  (Romans 8:28

What is keeping you stuck!?

When did you first feel stuck? What happened?

Some Symptoms of Feeling stuck

  • Not planning for the future
  • Not renewing your mind
  • Who or What am I blaming?
  • Who or what do I need to forgive
  • Where is your hope?
  • Anxiety and Depression
  • Do you feel overwhelmed by your circumstances?

Identify the root and cause can be tough but when You know it, you can get yourself unstuck.

Steps to Become Unstuck

  1. Prayer – God show me why I am stuck and how I can be unstock, make things clear to me and help me move through this
  2. Renew Your Mind – God knows exactly where you are and what you are going through. Sometimes the stories we tell ourselves or rehearse in our mind are not even 100% accurate.
  3. Fight The Lies Back – The word says for us to fight when negative thoughts and lies come to our minds. In 2 Corinthians 10: 4-5 “4for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. 5We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ,”
  4. Forgiveness- Who has hurt you that you have not made amends with or forgiven? What has happened to you that you need to let go of.

Unforgivness leads to bitterness and I dunno about you but I hate spending mental energy on people who have hurt me or wrongs we have experienced. We don’t get time machines or revenge. But we do kinda in a sick way get to win.   See so often we think we are keeping power over someone by holding a grudge judging someone’s past or what someone did to us. We don’t even know what someone may have been going through that caused them to react in a harmful way, and yea that sucks. But what sucks even more is the consequence of Unforgiveness which is the Poison of Bitterness…

Ephesians 4:31-32 “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

That’s the big one there, is “Let Go”

Let go of what could have been. Let go of what should have happened. Life rarely works out exactly how we anticipate. We can let us past hurts and pains, trauma, lies, our own excuses, blames others, and so much more. It may not be our fault that something bad like this has happened to us or taken place, but it is our responsibility to not stay defeated, forgive, let go, and go forward.

The reality is as uncomfortable as this may seem and just thinking about forgiving some of these past hurts and regrets is difficult, we cant stay down.

We can move past these things because the truth in the word is, “we can do all things though Christ who strengthens us.”

But sometimes still its so hard or unbelievable what has happened. The truth is in Romans 3:23 “For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God,”

What does the bible say to get us unstuck.

Colossians 3:13 “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

Many people ruin their health and their lives by taking the poison of bitterness, resentment and unforgiveness. Matthew 18:23-35 tells us that if we do not forgive people, we get turned over to the torturers.

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The following section is from, Joyce Meyer –Poison of Unforgiveness

How to Forgive

Would you like to become more successful at forgiving others? There are practical steps that must be taken. One time I asked the Lord why so many people want to forgive but aren’t successful doing it. And He said, “Because they aren’t obeying what I tell them to do in My Word.” As I searched the Word, I found the following instructions:

  1. Decide– You will never forgive if you wait until you feel like it. Choose to obey God and steadfastly resist the devil in his attempts to poison you with bitter thoughts. Make a quality decision to forgive, and God will heal your wounded emotions in due time (see Matthew 6:12-14).
  2. Depend– You cannot forgive without the power of the Holy Spirit. It’s too hard to do on your own. If you are truly willing, God will enable you, but you must humble yourself and cry out to Him for help. In John 20:22-23 Jesus breathed on the disciples and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit!” His next instruction was about forgiving people. Ask God to breathe the Holy Spirit on you so you can forgive those who’ve hurt you.
  3. Obey– The Word tells us several things we’re to do concerning forgiving our enemies:
  4. Pray for your enemies and those who abuse and misuse you. Pray for their happiness and welfare (see Luke 6:27-28). As you pray, God can give them revelation that will bring them out of deception. They may not even be aware they hurt you, or maybe they’re aware but are so self-centered that they don’t care. Either way, they need revelation.
  5. Bless and do not curse them(Romans 12:14). In the Greek to blessmeans “to speak well of” and to curse means “to speak evil of.” You can’t walk in forgiveness and be a gossip. You must stop repeating the offense. You can’t get over it if you continue to talk about it. Proverbs 17:9 says that he who covers an offense seeks love.



Our God is one of restoration and forgiveness. He forgave us didn’t he? We should probably forgive others as well? #justSayin

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Ron Gelok

I'm a full time home based business entrepreneur. I love to meet cool people, God, Love to skateboard, go fishing, and water sports. Traveling is what I'm into and loving life. I'm here to empower ordinary people to do extraordinary things. The entrepreneurial gene runs deep inside me. I believe in abundance and taking control of my life and future.

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